1. Don’t put the older guests next to the dance floor/speakers. If you have to ask why then you may want to hire a harpist all night.
  2. Don’t cram your entertainment out of the way — your entertainer should be seen. Powerful entertainers will work to get people on the dance floor but they must be seen as part of the action, not just some sideshow.
  3. A party should end when it shouldn’t end, not when it should. Ending a party before it dies down leaves everyone with the impression the floor was packed all night. It just feels better when people are left wanting more versus being completely burned out.
  4. A way to accomplish number 3 is to end the party before they may expect then you will more likely have people there at closing time. Stick with me here… it’s like a shell game. If they think it ends like many weddings at midnight and instead you end it at 11 pm or 11:30 then you’re more likely to have a big crowd still there. Ok, it’s kind of deceiving but it works like a charm. Also, many people with babysitters have a number in their head and guess what it usually is — midnight!
  5. Most recently added tip because I see it come up over and over. Michigan has the longest weddings in the country (or at least tied with it). We average 6 hours. So, what that means to the DJ is a longer dance window with each successive song reducing the odds it will be a hit. This is basic gambling math here. Your odds go down the longer you play. Vegas knows it and so do deejays. How can you improve your odds at a-rockin’ dance floor? Have a cocktail hour and don’t go right into dinner. It loosens people up and shrinks the already lengthy average Michigan Dance window from 4.25 hours to 3.25.
  6. A “too small” dance floor is better than one that is too big. The answer is simple as it creates the illusion whether real or not that the floor is full. People are more likely to dance when the crowd on the floor is jammed than when they feel like the only ones out there. Take it from the trade that knows about dancing and crowd psychology, not from the banquet manager selling you on why a huge floor is so important. If people end up dancing on the carpet then great they end up dancing on the carpet and the story of your floor being so packed people couldn’t even fit on the floor only further reinforces my point.
  7. Darker is better than lighter for dancing. People feel less of a spectacle, less “on stage” when they think they’re harder to see. That is why crime increases at night as well — and yes when some people dance it is a crime. This one works along the same lines of psychology as tip 4.
  8. Keep exit doors closed. Doors are inviting and you don’t want to invite people outside of the main room. Having them open allows more light into the room which again works against the psychodynamics of the dance floor. Open doors invite people to their cars in the parking lot. You want to keep their focus in the reception room for as long as possible.
  9. Brides and Grooms should never stand by the exit door unless they want people to leave. I have seen rooms drain guests one by one in a single file line. It is odd to explain but when the “guests of honor” stand by the exit door it draws people to them like a vacuum. Take my word for it keep away from the doors unless you want people to leave and don’t make a habit of saying goodbye to people while you’re on the dance floor. This too gets people in exit mode.
  10. This is a very general statement – Nicer places, (country clubs etc.) actually make it harder, especially in the summer and fall months to get people up and moving because they are so pre-occupied enjoying the scenery. Think about it… would you rather enjoy a cold beverage on a breezy deck outdoors amidst the trees or a sweaty dance indoors? It isn’t that the night can’t be great but all things being equal nicer venues pull from the floor potential. As a deejay, I love playing nicer events and usually do as that’s my target market but it can’t change simple human nature. If you’re having your party/reception at a really nice venue then you’ll just want to pay closer attention to some of these other factors to tip the scales in your favor.
  11. Bars should always be in the main room. Preferably closer to the dance floor but not in the way of any lines to the bar. If a bar and/or desserts are put out of the main room then a huge percentage of potential dancers are unavailable. Bars are like kitchens and they draw people to them. If you can help it, don’t make your DJ wrestle with the draw of a bar.
  12. If you are going to shut the bar down for 30 minutes of say 6 hours, do it during dinner. If you do it at say 11:30 then the party will more likely die out as people will feel that it’s time to go.
  13. Happy music keeps things going. Keep away from any negative vibes at all. Keep the mood up up up.
  14. Respect the musical opinions of your local professionals. They do this for a living. Be careful not to cut out all the “cliche” wedding music as you’ll find this will negatively impact the dance floor potential. People dance to what they know. A wedding reception is not the time and place to prove to your friends and family that you are into obscure music. You’ve got a lot of people from all over your family tree that want to have a good time to let your deejay exercise all his or her tools and really work his or her craft.
  15. Your wedding vendors should eat with the guests and not be fed a soggy club sandwich in the janitors closet. From years of experience, the more brides and grooms treat their vendors as guests, the more likely their unpaid guests will respect us too. I find it rather ironic that the nicest venues have some sort of craptitude (made up word) toward the DJ, bands, photographers and video crew and will encourage the bride and groom to shovel them off away from the action during dinner with a plate of moldy (I’m not kidding) cold cuts. Wouldn’t it make sense that they be right near the action? Not to mention if you treat your vendors like second class citizens how do you think that affects their attitudes? Your pros will bend over backward for you if you just treat them with the same respect you’d treat your guests with. Professional wedding vendors will go the extra mile for you when you treat them right.
  16. Consider NOT doing a dollar dance. Why? The reason is that when the bride and groom are doing this the guests realize they won’t be seen slipping out the door and it definitely stops the momentum of a-rockin’ party. If you must do one, do it early on after the main dances and limit it to 3 songs maximum.
  17. People tend to remember the beginning and the end of an event. That’s why your deejay should do a strong grand introduction and play while your guests are enjoying cocktails early on. This helps him (or her) to build rapport early on and if done right it puts your DJ in a more powerful position to work for your crowd all night.
  18. It is best for any traditional events or speeches to be done and out of the way before the dancing begins. In addition, it is important for pictures of the bridal party and bride and groom to be done, when at all possible, before the dancing begins. As a deejay, I have seen more parties lose steam because the bridal party is having pictures taken after the bridal dance. Do all the pictures before. It may cost you an extra hour earlier in the day but it will save you from losing a good handful of guests early on.
  19. Do all you can to arrange your rehearsal dinner 2 nights before, NOT 1 night before the reception. Why? I have seen many Michigan weddings where the bridal party was burnt out from the night before and this can (not always) play a big factor in building some inertia on the dance floor. Especially if there was heavy drinking involved.
  20. If you have to cut corners don’t compromise on the entertainment. My clients never complain that they paid too much for my DJ services. Also, know that experience is king — I am a better wedding DJ after every event I do.



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